Apr 16, 2010

when it rains, it pours...

how do you describe...
a friend who has always been there for you.
despite arguments and distances.
despite being pissed off with you.
despite knowing that you're crazy and can go thru drastic mood swings.

a friend who knows HOW to handle those mood swings. and someone who can actually tell random relatives at your wedding to not push you any more.
*my mom told me this recently and it made me SO proud!*
a friend who knows what you would like for lunch even though you may not know it.
a friend who orders that particular thing for you since you tend to forget.
a friend who understands the fascination for dancing in front of a mirror. and the aversion to tequila.
a friend who's so attuned to the deviousness of your mind, that she can be your partner in crime without you telling her of her role in the crime. and pull it off so beautifully.
a friend who is part sister, part care-taker, part best friend!
you don't describe them. coz they're so much more than what words can convey. you try and be there for them. try to be to them, what they've been for you.

p.s.: vibs is visiting me. she will be here next friday. and i'll be seeing her after 2 long years. she's entirely responsible for making me see the bright side of bbay. i'm hoping i can help her see the beautiful side of the US. :)

13 comments:

Galadriel said...

You already are in the beautiful side of the US :)

Have fun!

rayshma said...

G: haan.. she's never been to this side... hence! :D

Titaxy said...

Enjoy! friends are the best

DewdropDream said...

Someone once said to me that the feel-good value of a home could be measured by the number of visitors it attracted. Guess yours has gained it in notches :)

Pavi!!!! said...

wooooow..found yet another person to help u pack ? ;)

it is pouring guests at ur place! im jealous! have a blast entertaining and being entertained woman!

PS: the weather sucks here..how abt thre?

rayshma said...

pavi: yeah! am really looking fwd to the next coupla weeks! :)
it's been raining since yday.. but at least it's in the 40s. so yeah, not complaining!

dewey: MMUAAH!! that was SO sweet!
p.s.: can i add this to my resume?

titaxy: thanks! they sure are!

DewdropDream said...

Hahahaha :D SUre! You could even list me a reference if needed ;)

rayshma said...

dewey: tum aao toh sahi! pata chala volcanic ash refuses to let you fly! :(

Suruchi said...

cutting chai glasses shall finally reach you :-)!

gaelikaa said...

Have a wonderful time. And thanks for coming over....

celestialrays said...

you are tagged! yup, again :)

Pixie said...

:D
have fun! :)

Tigress said...

beautifully said...such friends honestly cannot be described in a few words..:) Have a great time!